DON'T FORGET ABOUT THE KIDS THIS CHRISTMAS

Whilst parenting orders are focused on the best interests of the child, sometimes their best interests are totally overlooked.  Having to go from one parent to the other, on a day where it is all about relaxing and having fun, can be super stressful and unpleasant.

 Here are some recommendations for kids of separated families during Christmas:

• Involve them in the planning: Depending on their age and maturity, consider involving kids in the planning process for the holidays. This can help them feel a sense of control and ownership over the celebration.

• Keep traditions alive: If there are certain holiday traditions that your family has always observed, try to keep these alive even if you are separated. This can provide a sense of comfort and familiarity for kids during a time of change.

• Talk about their feelings: It's important to acknowledge and validate any emotions that kids may be experiencing due to the separation. Encourage them to talk about their feelings and reassure them that it's okay to feel a range of emotions during the holidays.

• Find new ways to connect: If you are unable to be with your kids in person, try to find new ways to connect with them. This could include video calls, sending cards or gifts, or participating in activities together virtually.

• Keep things as normal as possible: While the holiday season may look different this year, try to keep things as normal as possible for kids. This could include maintaining regular routines and schedules, or participating in activities that they enjoy.